I understand what you are saying about the tie rods, however I have been running them for a long time, and know a lot of people who have, and I don't know of anyone who has broken other parts because of having upgraded tie rods. But I know a lot of people who no longer bend or break tie rods!
Regearing certainly helps for power, but there can be costs. I think it should be well thought out first. In my case, after looking into it, I have decided to stay with the stock gears, and here is why:
Our transmissions (the 4L65E ) are barely adequate for our trucks, and don't survive well with lots of added power. I tow. One should NEVER tow in 4th gear with these trannys. It builds heat which will kill it in time.
3rd gear is straight through 1:1 drive. I have my trans set to lock in 3rd. So towing in 3rd with it locked there are no moving parts to wear out. No heat build up, no clutches slipping, nothing to break. Right now I can tow in 3rd at 60 mph at 2500 rpm. If I am pulling a really steep pass, I can run in 2nd gear and be inthe maxpower rangeof themotor, and still be able to hold decent road speed. If I regeared lower then I would be running much higher rpm to try and keep highway speeds in 3rd, and dropping to second on steep hills would make me quite slow. Not as good on the motor, and sucking way more gas.
For my application the stock gearing actually works out pretty well. As far as offroad, I've never felt handicapped from my gearing. It's just never been an issue.
Definitely not saying don't regear, I'm just saying it should be something that is well thought out and done with a specific purpose and goal in mind.