Take the BCM out of the equation, it has nothing to do with the switch assembly. (The BCM supplies vehicle condition information such as speed to the Transfer Case Control Module; and will store any trouble codes issued by the TCCM.)
The switch assembly has only ONE connector. It is a 16-pin connector with the following pinouts:
1 4 LO LOCK Indicator Control
2 Seat Belt Indicator Control
3 Passenger Air Bag On Indicator Control
4 Not Used
5 Ignition Voltage
6 Passenger Air Bag Off Indicator Control
7 Ignition Voltage
8 Differential Lock Indicator Control
9 4 HI LOCK Indicator Control
10 Neutral Indicator Control
11 4 HI Indicator Control
12 Instrument Panel Lamps Dimmer Switch Signal
13 Ground
14 Traction Control Switch Signal
15 Switch Signal
16 5-Volt Reference
Notice that pin 15 is "switch signal" and that is the switch signals for all the 4x4/locker buttons; 4HI, 4HI LOCK, 4LO Lock, Neutral, rear locker (if equipped).
Each signal sends a unique voltage signal to the TCCM; and this unique signal is deciphered by the TCCM to determine what mode was requested by the driver....
I'm not sure if the TCCM is unique for each application; somewhere in the back of my mind I believe it is since I do not remember a category in the Tech 2 for programming the TCCM. (Maybe someone can step in and answer that, it's been 5 years for me since I last screwed around with a Tech 2.) If it can be programmed, then added the circuits to the rear locker solenoid would not be difficult. In this case, the BCM would also most likely need a new program (again not sure) to make sure the TCCM is fed the correct data from the BCM and the BCM understands what to do with any additional info (locker on/off) from the TCCM.
It is not as easy as it sounds to use the original switch assembly. Honestly, adding a simple on/off switch with a relay (relay is probably not necessary, but I like relays and feel they make the circuit more stable and safer) would make this very simple. I fusing a relay, you could even get one of those light accessory switches that fit into the bottom of the center i/P trim panel; unless they are already used.